Spiritual not religious

Spiritual But Not Religious: A Modern Path to Meaning

May 15, 20253 min read

Over the past few years, there has been a noticeable shift among many people toward identifying as spiritual rather than religious. This trend reflects a broader cultural change and speaks to how individuals are seeking meaning, connection, and inner peace in increasingly personal ways. Spirituality and religion are often seen as related but distinct. Religion typically involves shared doctrines, rituals, and community structures, while spirituality tends to be more fluid, individual, and intuitive. For many, spirituality is about a connection to something greater—whether that be nature, the universe, a higher power, or an inner sense of wisdom and purpose.

This shift does not necessarily represent a rejection of religion, but rather a transformation in how people seek meaning. Some may have grown disillusioned with organized religion or experienced exclusion or judgment within religious communities. Others may feel that traditional doctrines no longer align with their values or experiences. Instead, they are drawn to practices that foster inner connection and authenticity. Meditation, mindfulness, energy work, astrology, or time spent in nature often become important sources of insight and grounding. For some, this journey includes healing from religious trauma or questioning long-held beliefs in a way that feels safer and more empowering.

Spirituality can play a powerful role in emotional and psychological well-being. It provides a framework for exploring values, navigating suffering, and finding a sense of belonging. It often helps people articulate longings and beliefs that may not have had space to surface before. This can be especially meaningful during times of transition, loss, or personal growth. Whether through journaling, creative expression, rituals, or simply engaging with the mystery of life, spirituality can offer a sense of depth and comfort that extends beyond traditional mental health practices.


Spiritual not religious

In therapeutic settings and beyond, conversations about spirituality are becoming more common. Mental health professionals are increasingly aware of the importance of holding space for clients' spiritual experiences—not to define them, but to support individuals in exploring what feels meaningful and grounding. This might include discussing dreams, symbols, synchronicities, or personal rituals. It can also involve acknowledging grief over lost beliefs or communities, while celebrating the emergence of a more self-defined spiritual path. Supporting someone through this process means honoring their unique story, background, and evolving identity.

Spirituality is deeply personal and can be shaped by culture, family, life experience, and personal insight. There is no one "right way" to be spiritual. For some, it includes elements of traditional religion; for others, it might involve completely new paths or a blend of practices. The goal is not conformity but connection—to self, to others, and to something greater. What matters most is that the path resonates with the individual and supports their growth and well-being.

The rise of spiritual-but-not-religious identity reflects a broader yearning for authenticity, inclusivity, and deeper understanding. It invites people to explore their beliefs with curiosity and courage, to reclaim their sense of purpose, and to create meaning in ways that honor both their inner lives and their lived experiences. Whether someone is firmly rooted in a faith tradition, reimagining their spiritual world, or just beginning to ask deeper questions, there is space for that exploration. And in a world that can often feel fragmented and fast-paced, that kind of personal spiritual reflection can be a grounding force.

If you're someone navigating the space between spirituality and religion, or simply exploring what brings you a sense of peace and connection, know that your journey is valid. There's no need to have it all figured out. The process of questioning, discovering, and reconnecting with what matters most is a powerful path in itself.


Sari Neave, LMSW is a licensed psychotherapist and executive coach dedicated to helping individuals break free from self-doubt, worry, eating disorders, and life challenges. She believes in a collaborative therapeutic alliance, tailoring a combination of approaches to meet each client’s unique needs because there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Contact her at sarineave@gmail.com to learn more about how you can work together to achieve your goals.

Sari Neave

Sari Neave, LMSW is a licensed psychotherapist and executive coach dedicated to helping individuals break free from self-doubt, worry, eating disorders, and life challenges. She believes in a collaborative therapeutic alliance, tailoring a combination of approaches to meet each client’s unique needs because there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Contact her at [email protected] to learn more about how you can work together to achieve your goals.

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